SURROUND YOURSELF WITH RIGHT PEOPLE
You see, very often people are afraid of saying NO to what isn’t aligned with their values and not bringing more. One of the biggest and important things is to choose who you spend your time with. I know you have friends, maybe you are even friends since childhood but you are the one who is craving for more, the one who is always looking for the way how to scale your life, business, your own self to another level.
Let me ask you something, did you ever hear your friends telling you “ It’s never enough for you. When are you going to be satisfied? You became so boring. Stop bullshiting and let’s go to hang out around”. Did you? If yes, then you have a red flag and don’t be ashamed to cut them from your life. You have 2 options:
Be where they are
Leave them where they are and go to get what you want to have and be where you want to be
Don’t get me wrong, they don’t have to be bad people, I truly believe they were very valuable and important people in your life, amazing people but your goals and values in life changed. You want more and they don’t. What to do? Come back to my offered 2 options and you can decide what is that you want to do. To have more you have to have same success starving people next to you.
There is nothing wrong to hang out around, have parties etc. but it’s wrong to hang out with people who question your desire to be more. I know it is hard to do and to say NO to people you spent a lot of time with but it is something you must master to be able to grow. Your people, people who really meant to be next to you are those who will truly be happy to hear about your wins and you will be happy to hear about theirs.
How I got to that point, well, it didn’t happen over the night, a lot of practise, investment in the best coaches who are much further ahead than me to teach me. I am learning and applying every single day what I have learnt and keep learning.
To have more you have to do more
To be more you have to choose who to be surrounded by
To achieve more you have to starve to learn more
At the end I want to share with you few quotes I really like:
Who you spend time with is who you become! Change your life by consciously choosing to surround yourself with people with higher standards. — Tony Robbins
Not listening to the negativity that surrounds you and staying true to yourself and your vision is the way to unlock an extraordinary life. — Tony Robbins
When you learn to navigate and manage your breath, you can navigate any situation in life. ― Jay Shetty
Thank you for reading.
Maz